You should shower at least 1-2 times a day and do not be afraid to get the incision wet. Please clean it gently with soap and water and pat it dry.
The glue over your incision will start to peel off in 1-2 weeks. when it does you may remove it. There are stitches under the skin also supporting the incision. They will disolve on there own. Bruising is normal especially beneath the incision.
You should already have a follow up appointment scheduled in 7-10 days. If you do not, please call and make one.
Finally, "pelvic rest" for 2 months. This is extremely important!